Pastor’s Update, August 10, 2018
IN THIS UPDATE:
NINOS DE BAJA SUMMER TRIP: Please be praying for the following folks (as well as the staff, tias and parents) who are on this trip today through Sunday: Mike and Lynne Yeaman, Jill Dwyer, Sharon and Blake Wilson, Rachel, Kai and Laini Sutherland, Gary and Cruz Hanson. They are delivering the school supplies Gold Coast provided for the kids of Ninos de Baja, our orphanage in Mexico. Pray for travel safety and that they are a blessing to the kids of Ninos.
THIS SUNDAY we start a new sermon series. We’ll invest the next few weeks in Proverbs, the Bible’s wisdom book. We’re going to look at what God wants for us in all of our relationships with others. This Sunday we look at the relationship called friendship.
Vivek Murthy served as the 19th Surgeon General of the United States From 2014 to 2017. He says one of the most dangerous health crises in America today is the epidemic of loneliness. In an article he wrote for the August 2017 edition of the Harvard Business Review, entitled, “Work and the Loneliness Epidemic”, Murthy shares the following:
“We live in the most technologically connected age in the history of civilization, yet rates of loneliness have doubled since the 1980s. Today, over 40% of adults in America report feeling lonely, and research suggests that the real number may well be higher.
Additionally, the number of people who report having a close confidante in their lives has been declining over the past few decades.
During my tenure as US surgeon general … [and] my years caring for patients, the most common pathology I saw was not heart disease or diabetes; it was loneliness. The elderly man who came to our hospital every few weeks seeking relief from chronic pain was also looking for human connection: He was lonely. The middle-aged woman battling advanced HIV who had no one to call to inform that she was sick: She was lonely too. I found that loneliness was often in the background of clinical illness, contributing to disease and making it harder for patients to cope and heal.
Loneliness and weak social connections are associated with a reduction in lifespan similar to that caused by smoking 15 cigarettes a day and even greater than that associated with obesity. But we haven’t focused nearly as much effort on strengthening connections between people as we have on curbing tobacco use or obesity. Loneliness is also associated with a greater risk of cardiovascular disease, dementia, depression, and anxiety. At work, loneliness reduces task performance, limits creativity, and impairs other aspects of executive function such as reasoning and decision making. For our health and our work, it is imperative that we address the loneliness epidemic quickly.”
It’s crystal-clear that relationships are the most important things in all of life. Jesus said the second greatest command God has for us is love others. He longs for us to experience and develop healthy relationships with others, to do relationships right.That’s what we’re going to begin tackling together in God’s word this Sunday. I look forward being with you. Invite a friend to attend with you. This will be a good day to have others join you at Gold Coast!